April 23 2014, 08:34 AM

sacredlotusj:

emeraldjade:

sacredlotusj:

emeraldjade:

sacredlotusj:

emeraldjade:

sacredlotusj:

emeraldjade:

conceivethedream:

manifestingwomanist:

jellinformymelon:

elisaddiq:

darkmoonperfume:

bcauseican:

christel-thoughts:

peachringsandshinythings:

jas0nwaterfalls:

a discussion we had in WLC concerning women.

What got me was the fact that the two black girls couldn’t fathom being chosen first.

:/

"It seems like preferences are okay as long as it’s not Black women. But then it’s also not okay for Black women to have preferences other than Black men."

Wow

But why is anyone surprised though? Everyday you get the same message that a black woman is not beautiful, is not special, is not anything. The whole world shits on black women and we at the bottom of the rung when it comes to everything and that includes love and appreciation.

It doesn’t surprise me but it still hurts when you hear it from people

PREACHHHH THAT LAST MUTHAFUCKING LINE !!!!!!!!!

And this is why I’m black women first foremost and ONLY!! I have zero internet in riding for any other race/gender. We’re the only ones who respect, love, and cherish us. I’m not keeping hope over no damn crumbs and I’m not mollycoddling a brotha. But I ask him this: will you still prefer black when you come up? Most likely hell no.

This is so fucking sad. In a way it reminds me of the whole Lau debacle. We’re so used to being unloved and unwanted to the point it’s shocking when men actually prefer us over other races. As for the other black men who mentioned their preferences to be anything but black women, majority of those same men would have a fucking raging fit if they saw a black woman exclusively dating outside of her race. They’re allowed to fuck and wife whoever they want, but we have to sit around and praise/cry over/defend their crusty asses…hypocritical niggas. Smh

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I see no lies here.

I’m not surprised, either, but honestly, the brothas that don’t have a preference for black women are usually the ones I have zero interest in and don’t care about. It is sad, though, because Black women are some of the most loyal women I have ever seen, to the point of annoyance. We are told we are everything but anything positive constantly (loud, ghetto, attitudinal, Miss-Independent-Don’t-Want-No-Man’s-Help-That’s-Why-Your-Ass-Is-Single-or-Can’t-Get-a-Man) but I think it’s weakness or immaturity in a male that has the nerve to drag Black women for anything. 

Whoooo, girl, if you don’t preach that truth early this morning! Got me shouting up in here.

I wasn’t even trying… but honestly, look at the conversations you see about Black women in the media. 80% of it that comes from Black men is negative or some ridiculous expectation. The other 10% of it is from Black women uplifting and encouraging each other and the other 10% is Black women chiming in with hateful Black men. How can expect a woman to “hold you down” during your illegal activities (which women will do which, not only endangers herself unnecessarily, but endangers her children and other family, too), stands by you when/if you’re in prison, supports you during your broke periods, stays with you and has several of your children while having no ring on her finger for a decade but Black women are not desired? Heaven forbid a Black woman let you know what she wants and suddenly she’s not desirable because she’s holding you accountable. These same Black men that say one race is better than another would NEVER say it to their mothers, sisters or aunts. Somehow the women in their immediate family aren’t on the same caliber of your peers. How?? Stop fetishizing other women. You can find screwed up, conniving women in ALL colors just like you can find faithful, loyal and respectful women across the board. It’s not a Black woman problem. 

Just gonna….
*bold*

I feel you 200%, though. I’m so sick of us getting the short end of the stick and being deemed sub standard when we are anything but. Oh, but when we speak on it, we’re labeled as “insecure and weak”. Fuck outta here.

We’re weak, insecure, bitter, ANGRY. But honestly, if a woman has 3 of your kids over a period of 10 years and you leave her and your responsibilities as a man, why are we not entitled to be angry?? Why can’t I be angry for my sister, though? I have been treated THE WORST by exclusively Black men and I STILL stan for them and heavily prefer them. What’s sad about that? My experience is not unique. Most Black women are taught that the only men who desire them or will want to be with them are Black men, so we hold out for them, no matter how crappy of a human he is because we believe it. We believe we’re not desirable to anyone but Black men and some of us get left for a lighter woman and it reinforces that thinking that no, we aren’t desirable. And what do we get told? “Black women do this to themselves.” How could you not see that’s why some Black women are angry? Smh.


And let me say this: Black women are not a place holder until you find something “exotic” to be faithful to and serious about. 

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…I feel like I need to take up an offering or something…offer benediction and prayer….Jess just spilled all of that truth with no filter all over the place. I love this girl.

LMAO but the YAAAAAAS gif has me cracking up. You are too much, emerald jade​. You know I love you, too!

April 23 2014, 08:32 AM

trillaryclinton:

loveniaimani:

blessedbeyoundmeasure15:

pimpkage:

chubby-jean:

camerapits:

saintimpala:

OH MY GOD

OH

MY GOD

wHAT

…I’m not touching that pizza…

Oh LAWD

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perfect gif usage

April 23 2014, 08:29 AM

sacredlotusj:

emeraldjade:

sacredlotusj:

emeraldjade:

sacredlotusj:

emeraldjade:

conceivethedream:

manifestingwomanist:

jellinformymelon:

elisaddiq:

darkmoonperfume:

bcauseican:

christel-thoughts:

peachringsandshinythings:

jas0nwaterfalls:

a discussion we had in WLC concerning women.

What got me was the fact that the two black girls couldn’t fathom being chosen first.

:/

"It seems like preferences are okay as long as it’s not Black women. But then it’s also not okay for Black women to have preferences other than Black men."

Wow

But why is anyone surprised though? Everyday you get the same message that a black woman is not beautiful, is not special, is not anything. The whole world shits on black women and we at the bottom of the rung when it comes to everything and that includes love and appreciation.

It doesn’t surprise me but it still hurts when you hear it from people

PREACHHHH THAT LAST MUTHAFUCKING LINE !!!!!!!!!

And this is why I’m black women first foremost and ONLY!! I have zero internet in riding for any other race/gender. We’re the only ones who respect, love, and cherish us. I’m not keeping hope over no damn crumbs and I’m not mollycoddling a brotha. But I ask him this: will you still prefer black when you come up? Most likely hell no.

This is so fucking sad. In a way it reminds me of the whole Lau debacle. We’re so used to being unloved and unwanted to the point it’s shocking when men actually prefer us over other races. As for the other black men who mentioned their preferences to be anything but black women, majority of those same men would have a fucking raging fit if they saw a black woman exclusively dating outside of her race. They’re allowed to fuck and wife whoever they want, but we have to sit around and praise/cry over/defend their crusty asses…hypocritical niggas. Smh

image

I see no lies here.

I’m not surprised, either, but honestly, the brothas that don’t have a preference for black women are usually the ones I have zero interest in and don’t care about. It is sad, though, because Black women are some of the most loyal women I have ever seen, to the point of annoyance. We are told we are everything but anything positive constantly (loud, ghetto, attitudinal, Miss-Independent-Don’t-Want-No-Man’s-Help-That’s-Why-Your-Ass-Is-Single-or-Can’t-Get-a-Man) but I think it’s weakness or immaturity in a male that has the nerve to drag Black women for anything. 

Whoooo, girl, if you don’t preach that truth early this morning! Got me shouting up in here.

I wasn’t even trying… but honestly, look at the conversations you see about Black women in the media. 80% of it that comes from Black men is negative or some ridiculous expectation. The other 10% of it is from Black women uplifting and encouraging each other and the other 10% is Black women chiming in with hateful Black men. How can expect a woman to “hold you down” during your illegal activities (which women will do which, not only endangers herself unnecessarily, but endangers her children and other family, too), stands by you when/if you’re in prison, supports you during your broke periods, stays with you and has several of your children while having no ring on her finger for a decade but Black women are not desired? Heaven forbid a Black woman let you know what she wants and suddenly she’s not desirable because she’s holding you accountable. These same Black men that say one race is better than another would NEVER say it to their mothers, sisters or aunts. Somehow the women in their immediate family aren’t on the same caliber of your peers. How?? Stop fetishizing other women. You can find screwed up, conniving women in ALL colors just like you can find faithful, loyal and respectful women across the board. It’s not a Black woman problem. 

Just gonna….
*bold*

I feel you 200%, though. I’m so sick of us getting the short end of the stick and being deemed sub standard when we are anything but. Oh, but when we speak on it, we’re labeled as “insecure and weak”. Fuck outta here.

We’re weak, insecure, bitter, ANGRY. But honestly, if a woman has 3 of your kids over a period of 10 years and you leave her and your responsibilities as a man, why are we not entitled to be angry?? Why can’t I be angry for my sister, though? I have been treated THE WORST by exclusively Black men and I STILL stan for them and heavily prefer them. What’s sad about that? My experience is not unique. Most Black women are taught that the only men who desire them or will want to be with them are Black men, so we hold out for them, no matter how crappy of a human he is because we believe it. We believe we’re not desirable to anyone but Black men and some of us get left for a lighter woman and it reinforces that thinking that no, we aren’t desirable. And what do we get told? “Black women do this to themselves.” How could you not see that’s why some Black women are angry? Smh.


And let me say this: Black women are not a place holder until you find something “exotic” to be faithful to and serious about. 

…I feel like I need to take up an offering or something…offer benediction and prayer….Jess just spilled all of that truth with no filter all over the place. I love this girl.

April 23 2014, 07:41 AM

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Filed Under:  larry bourgeois  

emeraldjadegifs:

Same thing I said…{x}

Larry got me like…

April 23 2014, 07:16 AM

28 notes  Filed Under:  les twins  ltamps  larry bourgeois  

"Rio love me but I love u more" From Larry’s insta

April 23 2014, 06:48 AM

"I Don’t date dark skinned people"

blackinamerica:

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April 23 2014, 06:15 AM

Let me be quiet

 -

a bitch ready to say something mean (via collectionof-paradoxes)

…me right now.

April 23 2014, 06:12 AM

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It’s 2014 and females are still sending themselves anons and posting their responses in the Les Twins tag for attention and drama.

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April 18 2014, 05:55 PM

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This shit can’t  be happening. This shit can’t be fucking happening right now.

This shit can’t  be happening. This shit can’t be fucking happening right now.

April 18 2014, 10:34 AM

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April 17 2014, 10:55 PM

8 notes  Filed Under:  I FUCKING KNEW IT SON  

SOOOOOOOOOOOOONNNNNNN

Daddy Pope is….fuck, man….fuck.

April 17 2014, 10:16 PM

1 note  

Keep selling that dream, Fitz…

April 17 2014, 10:13 PM

I had that same “Eww” reaction, dawg…

April 17 2014, 09:00 PM

2 notes  

Still at this hair salon…

😔

April 17 2014, 01:37 PM

2 notes  

Finally found the cords to my external hard drive…y’all…my struggle was so real. My Mac refused to let me even open Lightroom or Photoshop…I had to edit my shoots on my HP WITHOUT my editing tablet. Like…anybody who has to do extensive editing knows this struggle….

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